Use your Failure.
Failure is an illusion that is produced from our attachment to specific expectations or results. The truth is that failure is our greatest teacher. It is often only through the experience of what we don't want that we become clear about we DO WANT. These are the experiences that shape our character and provide us with the strength and endurance to persevere in challenging situations. Failure is a great contributor to success.
What were your three greatest disappointments/failures? Now that you are able to look back with a more objective eye, what was the learning in each of those experiences? What was the gift that has enabled you to create greater success in your life?
Success or sabotage? Be mindful not to sabotage yourself by categorizing disappointing life experiences as "failures." Keep your eyes open for the gift (which is often cleverly hidden).
Is this going to be an incredible day? Focus your thoughts on the fresh experience that this day has in store for you.