Invest your Energy.
Your most important investment is your time, love and energy. If you wish to be successful (however you define it), you must decide whether you are receiving a return on your investments. Hopefully, you would not continue to invest your money in a vehicle that showed no signs (historically or otherwise) of a return. Naturally, the same is true for your energy. You are responsible for the health and welfare of your assets. Use them wisely!
There are people who spend their lives in victim consciousness. No matter what the circumstance, these people will find a dramatic storyline in which they are under the unfavorable hand of the fates. They are energized by negativity, complaints and pessimism. Stop and consider the cost of spending time with these people. Usually, one walks away feeling less energized or stripped of your joy or optimism. Do you really think this serves you in creating the kind of life that you desire? Take a moment to take note of the vampires in your life. Who is it that "sucks you dry?" What will you do to manage your time more effectively so that you are receiving a return on your investments?
Success or sabotage? There are no victims. you choose the influence that others have on you with your presence.
Is this going to be an incredible day? What will you do to create greater, more positive circumstances in this day?