Be the Exception.
You have what it takes. You have everything that you need. You are never given a desire, inclination or wish that you cannot accomplish. The delicate balance is the realization that being the exception rather than the rule (beating the tribal odds, doubts, and fears) does not apply to your potential and possibility. Why are you then so apt to conclude that others can have what you cannot? Isn't that incredibly egotistical? "Alas, that is true for others, but, not for me." Are you willing to surrender your victimization long enough to effectively manage your fears?
Are you managing your fears or are your fears managing you? If you allow fear to sit in the front seat of your life, it will end up driving. Every day you are making a decision--choices that create results (cause & effect); why not be conscious of the decisions that you're making? Do you really believe that you have desires that cannot possibly come to fruition? If you do, then why not give them up?
Success or sabotage? What do you have that you are NOT using to fuel your success?
Is this going to be an incredible day? Which of your qualities best serves you today?